How to Find Your Soul’s Purpose? | 8 Steps to Align with Soul's Purpose

Life, as I've come to realize, unfolds in mysterious ways, much like the currents beneath the surface of a vast ocean.

My journey, initially a fishbowl of paradigms and limitations chosen by my soul, took an unexpected turn, revealing the boundless depths of the ocean—a metaphor for freedom, self-discovery, and conscious co-creation.

The Soul's Selection

Our souls carefully curate the stage for our earthly experiences—choosing parents, situations, and lessons long before we consciously enter this realm.

My soul, in its wisdom, opted for a fishbowl adorned with paradigms, structures, fears, and traumas deeply embedded in my lineage and psyche.

At first, this concept blew my mind and it was hard to understand. It felt like a cruel joke—why would my soul choose such painful experiences?

It was like going through the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance.

I denied the idea that these challenges were part of a grand design and I became angry at the seeming injustice of it all.

I bargained with myself, trying to find ways to make sense of the pain.

Depression set in as I grappled with the weight of my circumstances.

But through this tumultuous process, a light began to break through. Slowly, I came to understand the profound wisdom behind my soul's choices.

It wasn't about punishment or suffering for suffering's sake. It was about growth, evolution, and becoming the fullest expression of myself.

This realization brought a sense of grace into my life. I started to see my experiences not as burdens, but as gifts—opportunities for deep learning and transformation.

Finding gratitude in this perspective was a turning point.

I began to appreciate the intricate design of my life, recognizing that every paradigm, every structure, and every trauma had shaped me into who I am today.

Embracing this understanding allowed me to extend grace to myself, to be gentler and more compassionate as I navigated my journey.

I saw the strength and resilience I had cultivated through these experiences and felt a profound gratitude for the wisdom and depth they had imparted.

Gratitude for the Lessons

Contrary to what society deems negative, I find myself expressing gratitude for the challenges my soul chose.

This might sound odd at first—why would anyone be thankful for hardships, trauma, or pain?

Society often tells us to avoid discomfort at all costs, to seek pleasure and ease, and to view challenges as unfortunate roadblocks.

But through my journey, I've come to see these challenges not as curses, but as blessings in disguise.

Each paradigm, each trauma, and every pain point have become stepping stones on my journey toward becoming the fullest expression of myself.

Enduring emotional trauma made me confront my deepest fears and insecurities, and through this confrontation, I discovered a strength within me that I never knew existed.

Gratitude, in this context, is a powerful tool for transformation.

It shifts my perspective from being a victim of circumstance to being a co-creator of my reality.

By appreciating the lessons embedded in my difficulties, I reclaim my power. I no longer see myself as being at the mercy of a cruel fate, but as an active participant in a grand, purposeful design.

This shift in perspective has brought me peace and a sense of purpose, knowing that every experience—good or bad—contributes to my growth and evolution.

Through gratitude, I embrace my past, learn from it, and use it as a foundation to build a more authentic and fulfilling life.

This is why I find myself expressing gratitude for the challenges my soul chose—they have been the crucible through which my highest self has been forged.

The Fishbowl Metaphor

Reflecting on my fascination with fish, particularly Koi, and a spiritual encounter with dolphins, the fishbowl metaphor took root deeply in my mind.

I've always been captivated by Koi fish, admiring their vibrant colors and graceful movements. However, they are confined to their limited space within the aquarium.

Like a fish in an aquarium, I once wondered about their perceived freedom, only to realize that what seemed like liberty was, in fact, a restricted existence.

The glass walls of the fishbowl symbolized the invisible boundaries set by societal expectations, fears, and self-imposed limitations that had shaped my life.

The true revelation came as I sailed at sunset, surrounded by dolphins, witnessing their playful existence—a stark contrast to my fishbowl.

Dolphins, gliding effortlessly through the vast ocean, embodied true freedom and joy. Their uninhibited movement and playful nature made me realize what it meant to live fully and authentically.

The dolphins were not confined by any boundaries; they embraced the vastness of the ocean, symbolizing an existence unrestrained by societal norms.

This profound experience highlighted the disparity between my life in the metaphorical fishbowl and the boundless potential of living a life of conscious co-creation, where I could break free from limitations and embrace my true essence.

The Fishbowl of Expectation

In my twenties, my husband and I embarked on a career path that, at the time, felt like our soul's calling. We were passionate and committed, believing wholeheartedly that this was our true purpose.

We poured our hearts and souls into this path, driven by a sense of duty and ambition.

Little did we know, it was a detour—a crucial lesson that would ultimately reshape our trajectory.

As we swam in this fishbowl of expectations, we conformed to societal norms and allowed our egos to guide us.

We were caught up in a cycle of meeting external expectations and validating our worth through achievements, unaware that we were straying further from our authentic selves.

Over time, the confines of this metaphorical fishbowl became apparent.

The pressure to conform, the relentless pursuit of success, and the constant need for external approval started to weigh heavily on us.

It became clear that this path, while initially fulfilling, was not aligned with our true desires and soul's purpose.

Our souls craved a different direction—one that embraced freedom, authenticity, and deeper meaning.

This realization was both liberating and daunting.

We understood that to honor our true selves, we needed to break free from the constraints of expectations and ego, and courageously dive into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation.

This pivotal moment marked the beginning of our journey towards a more authentic, soul-aligned life.

The Floundering Exit

Exiting the fishbowl into the vast ocean of co-creation was nothing short of transformative.

It felt like breaking through an invisible barrier that had confined us for so long.

As we stepped out of our comfort zone and into the unknown, the healing waters of the ocean flooded in, washing away the constraints of societal expectations and ego that had once held us back.

The shift was so profound, as if the weight of the world had been lifted from our shoulders, allowing us to breathe and move freely for the first time.

We were no longer bound by the limiting beliefs and external pressures that had defined our lives in the fishbowl. Instead, we found ourselves immersed in a boundless sea of possibilities, where we could explore and express our true selves.

The ocean became a realm of healing, learning, gratitude, and conscious co-creation. In this vast expanse, we discovered the beauty of living authentically and intentionally.

Every experience, whether joyous or challenging, was an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. We learned to appreciate the lessons embedded in our journey, finding gratitude in both the highs and lows.

The ocean's vastness symbolized the infinite potential within us to create and shape our own reality. It was a place where we could consciously co-create our lives, aligning our actions with our soul's deepest desires.

This newfound freedom and sense of purpose infused our lives with a profound sense of fulfillment and joy, as we embraced the journey of becoming the fullest expression of ourselves.

The Ocean of Possibilities

Now, the question arises—where are you in life? Are you confined in the fishbowl of societal expectations, or have you taken the plunge into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation?

The soul may have chosen our initial experiences, but we, as beautiful souls, possess the power to decide our responses and choose our paths. Here are some practical steps to help you move forward:

Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your current state. Are you content with where you are, or do you feel confined by societal expectations and limitations? Journaling your thoughts and feelings can provide clarity on your current situation and what changes you might need to make.
Identify Limiting Beliefs: Recognize the beliefs and patterns that are keeping you in the fishbowl. These might include fears, doubts, or societal pressures. Once identified, challenge these beliefs and replace them with empowering ones that align with your true self.
Embrace Vulnerability: Stepping out of the fishbowl requires courage and vulnerability. Allow yourself to be open to new experiences and perspectives, even if they feel uncomfortable at first. Vulnerability is a strength that can lead to profound personal growth.
Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who encourage your growth and authenticity. This could be friends, family, or a mentor who understands your journey and can provide guidance and encouragement.
Practice Gratitude: Cultivate a gratitude practice to appreciate the lessons and experiences in your life. Gratitude shifts your focus from what's lacking to what's abundant, fostering a positive mindset and greater fulfillment.
Set Intentions: Clearly define your intentions for moving forward. What do you want to create in your life? Setting intentions helps you stay focused and aligned with your soul's purpose, guiding your actions and decisions.
Take Inspired Action: Begin taking small, inspired steps towards your new path. These actions don't have to be grand gestures; even small changes can lead to significant transformations over time.
Explore Your Soul’s Blueprint: To gain deeper insight into your soul's purpose, consider exploring your soul’s blueprint through a Soul Contract Reading. This process reveals the karmic lessons, innate talents, and destined goals your soul has chosen for you. Understanding your soul's design can provide valuable clarity and direction, helping you navigate your path with greater confidence and alignment. Seek out a Soul Contract Reading to unlock these insights and support your journey of self-discovery and purposeful living.

As you reflect on your journey, consider your current state—are you content in the fishbowl, or do you yearn for the depths of the ocean?

The power lies within you to respond, grow, learn, and choose your own path.

The fishbowl may have been chosen by the soul, but the ocean is where your conscious co-creation awaits.

If you're unsure about your soul's purpose or how to begin this transformative journey, I invite you to schedule a Soul Contract Reading with me.

Together, we will explore the karma your soul chose, the talents you possess, your goals, and the destiny designed for you. This reading will provide clarity and insight, helping you understand your soul's blueprint and empowering you to create a life that truly aligns with your highest self.

Don't wait any longer to dive into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation.

Click HERE to schedule your Soul Contract Reading today and embark on a journey of self-discovery and purpose. Your soul's true calling awaits, and I am here to guide you every step of the way.

Let's Chat Soon,

Rachael

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Life, as I've come to realize, unfolds in mysterious ways, much like the currents beneath the surface of a vast ocean.

My journey, initially a fishbowl of paradigms and limitations chosen by my soul, took an unexpected turn, revealing the boundless depths of the ocean—a metaphor for freedom, self-discovery, and conscious co-creation.

The Soul's Selection

Our souls carefully curate the stage for our earthly experiences—choosing parents, situations, and lessons long before we consciously enter this realm.

My soul, in its wisdom, opted for a fishbowl adorned with paradigms, structures, fears, and traumas deeply embedded in my lineage and psyche.

At first, this concept blew my mind and it was hard to understand. It felt like a cruel joke—why would my soul choose such painful experiences?

It was like going through the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance.

I denied the idea that these challenges were part of a grand design and I became angry at the seeming injustice of it all.

I bargained with myself, trying to find ways to make sense of the pain.

Depression set in as I grappled with the weight of my circumstances.

But through this tumultuous process, a light began to break through. Slowly, I came to understand the profound wisdom behind my soul's choices.

It wasn't about punishment or suffering for suffering's sake. It was about growth, evolution, and becoming the fullest expression of myself.

This realization brought a sense of grace into my life. I started to see my experiences not as burdens, but as gifts—opportunities for deep learning and transformation.

Finding gratitude in this perspective was a turning point.

I began to appreciate the intricate design of my life, recognizing that every paradigm, every structure, and every trauma had shaped me into who I am today.

Embracing this understanding allowed me to extend grace to myself, to be gentler and more compassionate as I navigated my journey.

I saw the strength and resilience I had cultivated through these experiences and felt a profound gratitude for the wisdom and depth they had imparted.

Gratitude for the Lessons

Contrary to what society deems negative, I find myself expressing gratitude for the challenges my soul chose.

This might sound odd at first—why would anyone be thankful for hardships, trauma, or pain?

Society often tells us to avoid discomfort at all costs, to seek pleasure and ease, and to view challenges as unfortunate roadblocks.

But through my journey, I've come to see these challenges not as curses, but as blessings in disguise.

Each paradigm, each trauma, and every pain point have become stepping stones on my journey toward becoming the fullest expression of myself.

Enduring emotional trauma made me confront my deepest fears and insecurities, and through this confrontation, I discovered a strength within me that I never knew existed.

Gratitude, in this context, is a powerful tool for transformation.

It shifts my perspective from being a victim of circumstance to being a co-creator of my reality.

By appreciating the lessons embedded in my difficulties, I reclaim my power. I no longer see myself as being at the mercy of a cruel fate, but as an active participant in a grand, purposeful design.

This shift in perspective has brought me peace and a sense of purpose, knowing that every experience—good or bad—contributes to my growth and evolution.

Through gratitude, I embrace my past, learn from it, and use it as a foundation to build a more authentic and fulfilling life.

This is why I find myself expressing gratitude for the challenges my soul chose—they have been the crucible through which my highest self has been forged.

The Fishbowl Metaphor

Reflecting on my fascination with fish, particularly Koi, and a spiritual encounter with dolphins, the fishbowl metaphor took root deeply in my mind.

I've always been captivated by Koi fish, admiring their vibrant colors and graceful movements. However, they are confined to their limited space within the aquarium.

Like a fish in an aquarium, I once wondered about their perceived freedom, only to realize that what seemed like liberty was, in fact, a restricted existence.

The glass walls of the fishbowl symbolized the invisible boundaries set by societal expectations, fears, and self-imposed limitations that had shaped my life.

The true revelation came as I sailed at sunset, surrounded by dolphins, witnessing their playful existence—a stark contrast to my fishbowl.

Dolphins, gliding effortlessly through the vast ocean, embodied true freedom and joy. Their uninhibited movement and playful nature made me realize what it meant to live fully and authentically.

The dolphins were not confined by any boundaries; they embraced the vastness of the ocean, symbolizing an existence unrestrained by societal norms.

This profound experience highlighted the disparity between my life in the metaphorical fishbowl and the boundless potential of living a life of conscious co-creation, where I could break free from limitations and embrace my true essence.

The Fishbowl of Expectation

In my twenties, my husband and I embarked on a career path that, at the time, felt like our soul's calling. We were passionate and committed, believing wholeheartedly that this was our true purpose.

We poured our hearts and souls into this path, driven by a sense of duty and ambition.

Little did we know, it was a detour—a crucial lesson that would ultimately reshape our trajectory.

As we swam in this fishbowl of expectations, we conformed to societal norms and allowed our egos to guide us.

We were caught up in a cycle of meeting external expectations and validating our worth through achievements, unaware that we were straying further from our authentic selves.

Over time, the confines of this metaphorical fishbowl became apparent.

The pressure to conform, the relentless pursuit of success, and the constant need for external approval started to weigh heavily on us.

It became clear that this path, while initially fulfilling, was not aligned with our true desires and soul's purpose.

Our souls craved a different direction—one that embraced freedom, authenticity, and deeper meaning.

This realization was both liberating and daunting.

We understood that to honor our true selves, we needed to break free from the constraints of expectations and ego, and courageously dive into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation.

This pivotal moment marked the beginning of our journey towards a more authentic, soul-aligned life.

The Floundering Exit

Exiting the fishbowl into the vast ocean of co-creation was nothing short of transformative.

It felt like breaking through an invisible barrier that had confined us for so long.

As we stepped out of our comfort zone and into the unknown, the healing waters of the ocean flooded in, washing away the constraints of societal expectations and ego that had once held us back.

The shift was so profound, as if the weight of the world had been lifted from our shoulders, allowing us to breathe and move freely for the first time.

We were no longer bound by the limiting beliefs and external pressures that had defined our lives in the fishbowl. Instead, we found ourselves immersed in a boundless sea of possibilities, where we could explore and express our true selves.

The ocean became a realm of healing, learning, gratitude, and conscious co-creation. In this vast expanse, we discovered the beauty of living authentically and intentionally.

Every experience, whether joyous or challenging, was an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. We learned to appreciate the lessons embedded in our journey, finding gratitude in both the highs and lows.

The ocean's vastness symbolized the infinite potential within us to create and shape our own reality. It was a place where we could consciously co-create our lives, aligning our actions with our soul's deepest desires.

This newfound freedom and sense of purpose infused our lives with a profound sense of fulfillment and joy, as we embraced the journey of becoming the fullest expression of ourselves.

The Ocean of Possibilities

Now, the question arises—where are you in life? Are you confined in the fishbowl of societal expectations, or have you taken the plunge into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation?

The soul may have chosen our initial experiences, but we, as beautiful souls, possess the power to decide our responses and choose our paths. Here are some practical steps to help you move forward:

Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your current state. Are you content with where you are, or do you feel confined by societal expectations and limitations? Journaling your thoughts and feelings can provide clarity on your current situation and what changes you might need to make.

Identify Limiting Beliefs: Recognize the beliefs and patterns that are keeping you in the fishbowl. These might include fears, doubts, or societal pressures. Once identified, challenge these beliefs and replace them with empowering ones that align with your true self.

Embrace Vulnerability: Stepping out of the fishbowl requires courage and vulnerability. Allow yourself to be open to new experiences and perspectives, even if they feel uncomfortable at first. Vulnerability is a strength that can lead to profound personal growth.

Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who encourage your growth and authenticity. This could be friends, family, or a mentor who understands your journey and can provide guidance and encouragement.

Practice Gratitude: Cultivate a gratitude practice to appreciate the lessons and experiences in your life. Gratitude shifts your focus from what's lacking to what's abundant, fostering a positive mindset and greater fulfillment.

Set Intentions: Clearly define your intentions for moving forward. What do you want to create in your life? Setting intentions helps you stay focused and aligned with your soul's purpose, guiding your actions and decisions.

Take Inspired Action: Begin taking small, inspired steps towards your new path. These actions don't have to be grand gestures; even small changes can lead to significant transformations over time.

As you reflect on your journey, consider your current state—are you content in the fishbowl, or do you yearn for the depths of the ocean?

The power lies within you to respond, grow, learn, and choose your own path.

The fishbowl may have been chosen by the soul, but the ocean is where your conscious co-creation awaits.

If you're unsure about your soul's purpose or how to begin this transformative journey, I invite you to schedule a Soul Contract Reading with me.

Together, we will explore the karma your soul chose, the talents you possess, your goals, and the destiny designed for you. This reading will provide clarity and insight, helping you understand your soul's blueprint and empowering you to create a life that truly aligns with your highest self.

Don't wait any longer to dive into the vast ocean of conscious co-creation.

Click HERE to schedule your Soul Contract Reading today and embark on a journey of self-discovery and purpose. Your soul's true calling awaits, and I am here to guide you every step of the way.

P.S. Join the iHealFirst Community-A community designed to guide and nurture you through the transformative journey of midlife